Saturday 4th February

And now for a real political show trial – Chris Huhne, who until he joined the Government I had always liked in a way, is soon to be facing charges over perverting the course of justice, re: speeding points. And believe me the Law takes perverting the course of justice far more seriously than whatever the original offence may have been.  The whole edifice of Justice relies on people being truthful, and when they are found not to be, the whole panoply of the law is used against them.  Otherwise we might all think we could get away with lying, heaven forefend; the very idea. I bet he wishes now that he had simply taken the points and a possible ban way back in 2003.  It would all be over by now.  Strange how things you thought you had put behind you always return to bite you on the bottom.  But of course this is not really about speeding points or who took them, I mean who really cares about that, this is about integrity, with the added juice of a woman scorned. Not since Jeremy Thorpe have we had in a courtroom a Liberal politician having his integrity challenged.  And what on earth does Mr. Huhne think will be his defence; will he expect the jury to believe either his or his wife’s words over this charge, and she is on trial too for the same offence, so if she admits it, and he doesn’t what will that say about both of them.  I cannot in all honesty see anyone really believing him, and even if he is not actually found guilty, there will always be the whiff of dishonesty about him.  Of course, it is just possible that he is totally innocent and is now the victim of a scorned woman’s revenge.  Hard to really believe his former wife would go to such lengths purely out of revenge if there weren’t some fire behind the smoke.  She could have simply “kissed and told” her side of their marriage, maybe hinting at previous infidelities – you know, that sort of thing.  But how convenient for her that they had this little guilty secret between them! The fact that she, if Mr. Huhne is to be believed, has made the whole thing up only adds to the spice.  And now he is branded not only as a liar, but a cheat and a love-rat too.  Oh, how the mighty are fallen.  And of course let us not forget that he could so easily have become Leader of the Lib-Dems and Deputy Prime Minister too, now that would have been exciting.

Friday 3rd February

Margaret Thatcher once stupidly declared that there was no such thing as society.  Maybe she instantly regretted it, or maybe her minders told her she should be more circumspect in future, but she never repeated it.  Of course there is such a thing as society, and public opinion is a large part of that.  But how do we measure public opinion, I mean really discern what the public is thinking, not what they are being told by an ever more strident Media.  Sometimes society’s views, public opinion if you will, becomes overwhelmingly obvious, such as over MPs expenses, or the News of the World hacking into missing Milly Dowler’s phone, but these occasions are rarer than you think.  Often the so-called public furore is actually being quite well orchestrated by politicians or a lobby group, and sometimes the papers, closely followed by the TV news who jump on a bandwagon which was hardly moving until their added weight sends it careering down the hill of public opinion.  Were people really up in arms about Stephen Hester’s bonus, was society really clamouring for the knighthood, and almost a head on a pole, of Fred Goodwin, or are we all being manipulated in some more sinister way.  If you think about it, these poor (or rich, depends which way you look at it) individuals were just the private victims of a more public disquiet about our society.  Why is it that the rich and famous, as well as receiving quite ridiculously high paychecks, also qualify for almost automatic bonuses and awards, plaudits and praise or worse if they fall foul of certain views.  It is actually quite hard nowadays to be a business leader or a pop star or a footballer without praise and opprobrium being heaped upon one in almost equal measure.  Maybe this is the inevitable end result of the increasingly fervid celebrity culture we all, to some extent, live in.

And now we are entering into the realm of the celebrity trial.  Whether John Terry actually abused Anton Ferdinand or not is hardly worth a trial is it?  What were the words he either actually used or that Mr. Ferdinand thinks he heard him say?  And what was his intention, is it not just as important that one’s intention has some weight rather than just the perception of the receiver of those words. Anyway I was always brought up to say to girls who might try to bully one, who poked you in the ribs or slapped your arm with a ruler when Miss wasn’t looking, “Sticks and Stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”  And their words were quite hurtful enough too, I can tell you.  Should I have insisted that they be publicly humiliated and forced to repeat them in a public trial.  And is it public opinion that is driving this, or is it just one section of an ever more intolerant society?  What do people waiting for the 97 bus think of it, or has no-one actually asked them?  The most ludicrous thing is that at the very same moment as John Terry said whatever he did say, in anger and frustration no doubt, and probably deeply regretted later, thousands in the crowd were chanting quite obscene and racist slogans to their hearts content safe in the knowledge that as a crowd, as part of society they would never be brought to book for it.  Strange world isn’t it?

Thursday 2nd February

After one of the mildest Januarys I can remember, February has come in with a blast.  A blast of cold air from the East too. And just by con-incidence, yesterday I saw my first daffodils of the year, on February the first too, that must be a record.  I think they had been fooled by all the mild weather that spring was really here; a mistake a lot of us may have made too.  They looked a bit sad to be honest, it was bitterly cold, the wind was blowing bits of litter around and these few early daffodils seemed lost in the cold wind, looking around expecting to see their fellows, all with their yellow heads dancing, only to see that most were keeping their heads down and closed up, hunkered down out of the wind.

But despite the cold, maybe in fact because of it, I feel that we need it. We need it to remind us that life can be hard; a constant struggle against the elements, and we need the winter to remind us that it won’t always be cold, that the Spring will come soon.  I always think how sad for those who choose to winter abroad, in their Spanish villa’s that are actually too hot to go to in the height of summer, that they should miss our winter frosts, when the grass is a field of spikes, each blade with its own crystal coat of ice, and your breath comes out in watery cloud-puffs in front of you, and your nose and ears tingle when you get back indoors. And as I get older, I almost don’t feel the cold so much as I used to.  At least when I am out walking, I hate a cold draughty house.  I almost relish the wind trying to finds a way in past my defences’, between the buttons of my coat or where my sleeve doesn’t quite meet my gloves.  The way the ice in those shallow puddles cracks when you tread on it, and the way there is a frosty sheen on the metal railings, a thin patina of ice that is almost dull in its opaque smoothness. And so far we haven’t had any snow even, a few lonely flakes drifting around looking for somewhere to settle and then deciding it wasn’t quite time yet. A bit like the Winter itself, hesitant, tentative and unsure of itself, testing us and making us wait a while this year, but my old friend Winter is here at last.   

Wednesday 1st February

We all cope in our different ways, whether it is a leaking tap or a friend’s illness. I have a very capable friend, in fact in many ways she is amazing; nothing fazes her, simply nothing. She is never stuck for an answer, if she doesn’t already know the solution, she knows someone who will know. If it is something she has never come across before she is straight-away on the computer and seems to know as if by some divination exactly which words to type into the search engine. And in minutes she has the solution; there she is bright and breezy with all the platitudes she can muster, ready to sort out any disaster large or small. But I wonder if somewhere deep down there is the tiniest bit of self-doubt, or is the persona she exudes the person she really is, is she really so absolutely capable and self confident the whole time.

Me, I react quite differently, I take my time for a start, and mull things over and maybe, just possibly I work it out over time. Or maybe I don’t; some things I do not manage to resolve in any satisfactory way at all.  And the sky hasn’t fallen in yet. The leaking tap can drip a bit longer until I decide if a plumber or a washer is required. And if I hear of a friend who has been diagnosed with cancer, I do not rush to the PC and print off reams of the latest advice, the latest possible remedies and treatments, the hopes for the future, the best hospitals to get them into. No, I go and make a pot of tea, and sit down to think. I slip on a CD, maybe Delius or Dvorak, or some piano music by Chopin. I may even pick up a novel for a few minutes, just to divert my thoughts, I may pull out some photo’s of my friend and try to remember the good times we had. The only positive thing I may do is to find out if she is in hospital and when the visiting times are. And I think, I think about the fragility of life, about the fact that we are constantly let down by our bodies, and yet how wonderful we all are too despite our failings and frailties, and I may even write a note to them. That is how I cope with disasters, sitting here on my sofa stroking little puddy-tat and thinking about our lives.

Tuesday 31st January

Two song titles in a row – the girl must be getting hard up for subjects these days.  This is that famous song by Talking Heads and incidentally one of their few hits and one which might have been more acceptable and mainstream then their earlier efforts such as ‘Take me to the River’ or ‘Psychokiller’.  This was late in their career, and maybe they were getting a bit soft, or just couldn’t help but write themselves a big hit when they were only one album away from that inevitable break-up.  But for whatever reason this one struck an instant chord with the public.  The breezy full-on tune which starts with a minimum of intro, and then we are full-tilt into it, the traditional tinge to the rather dense and heavy sound bringing the familiar into the unusual.  Then David Byrne’s lyrics, with their plaintive refrain “We’re on a road to nowhere” instantly makes a connection with the listener.  As Haruki Marukami says ‘if you can’t understand it without an explanation, then you won’t be able to understand it with one.’  And nobody needs any explanation to that phrase, it is universally understood. It succinctly sums up what so many of us feel about the human race and our headlong plunge into the void.  But it may also be just as much about the personal, and turning the love song on its head, be about a relationship that is also on a road to nowhere.

And are we really on a road to nowhere, is there no salvation for us, mankind?  Does it all have to end in our own and maybe the planet itself’s demise, or are we perchance destined for greater things.  Is our road actually a road to somewhere – could it just be that we will save not only ourselves but the planet itself, and who knows perhaps one day the Universe too. Is it not at least possible that of all the myriad and almost infinite number of planets in the Universe, this one planet, the one we find ourselves on, holds the key to unlocking the secrets of life, the creation and a way to stop the entropy and the eventual end of the Universe too.  Not probable, hardly credible, so unlikely as to be ludicrous in this ‘Approximately Infinite Universe’ as Yoko once described it, but maybe, just maybe we are actually on a road to somewhere.

Monday 30th January

The words are courtesy of Michelle Shocked, a rather remarkable Texan woman I first heard in the early eighties.  She sings her own hybrid mix of country, blues and gospel and anything else that comes to her ear.  Her politics are pretty left wing and out-there, and she also has a very American attitude to religion, which I find annoying in the extreme.  But she also has the voice of an angel, and sings some very memorable songs, and always sings from the heart and with total honesty.  She has this incredible talent for writing lines and tunes that you remember, and that pop into your brain at the most unlikely times.

This line is from a song called “Over the Waterfall” and I never quite understood the meaning of that rather clever line.  I mean, of course it is true that falling in itself doesn’t hurt one, but the landing, the bump, the broken bones when you do come to earth, do hurt.  So what?  It still hurts like hell, and whether the pain is during the fall or the landing, the fact that you have fallen results in the pain surely.  But today I suddenly perceived another meaning, and maybe one which Michelle had never realized herself.  I was sitting minding my own business, when that line came into my head, and you know how it is sometimes, I just couldn’t shake it out.  And it suddenly came to me that it was an analogy for life; nobody can stop you falling, it is human nature to fail and to have set-backs.  But it isn’t those setbacks, those failings, those troubles that cause you the pain, but how you land; how you deal with them that matters.  So we shouldn’t be scared of falling, to fall is to be human, we just have to learn how to land.  So when a love affair breaks up, or a friend dies early, or some other drama in one’s life loom so large it seems to black out all hope and the world seems dark and painful, we have to learn how to land with as few broken bones as possible.  The lesson here is not in living your life so carefully that you never fall; no-one can be that clever, but in being able to cope with the falling, being able to achieve some sort of soft landing, to be able to not let the stumbles and pitfalls of life drag you down completely, but to have the ability to survive, to carry on, and to overcome.  Just like going over the waterfall in the song.  It don’t hurt you when you fall, only when you land.

Sunday 29th January

Amazing, isn’t it, how hope triumphs over experience time and time again.  You know that you really should have known better, but curiosity sometimes gets the better of one’s good judgment.

I may have mentioned that I am a dab hand at poached eggs on toast; at one time I practically lived on them, during the few years after Grandma died and my mother and I were almost camping in the house at Putney.  And I still cook them an awful lot, sometimes for breakfast, but more often when you just cannot face peeling potatoes and trying to assemble a real dinner just for oneself, far easier to just poach a couple of eggs.  The trick is to get the water just right, rolling over but not ferociously boiling, and of course you have to know your toaster.  There is nothing worse than toast that is ready minutes before your egg, and the butter re-solidifies as you wait for your egg to cook, or vice versa when your egg spoils because the toaster just will not brown the toast.

I was in John Lewis, just browsing really, not intending to buy anything, and I drifted down into the kitchen department.  I had noticed more and more these red rubber cooking utensils, form spatulas to oven gloves, and especially cake cups.  Well my eye was taken by a new line, egg poaching cups.  They are quite deep red rubber cups that float in the boiling water and, so it says on the label, simply run a spoon around the edge of the egg to remove it from the cup.  I thought to myself, what a good idea; because the only downside to poaching eggs is the cleaning of the saucepan, where all that frothy white sticks like glue, second only to weetabix in its stickability, and you end up having to soak it for ages in soapy water.  So, without a moment’s thought I bought two of them.

I tried them out this morning, and what a disaster.  Because there is no hard rim on the red rubber cups you have to crack the eggs one at a time into a teacup and then pour this into the cups, so more unnecessary washing up.  Then I found that no matter how low I turned the heat, the water kept rolling over into the cups, incidentally swilling some egg-white into the saucepan where it immediately stuck to the sides.  The rubber acts almost as an insulation so the eggs took twice as long to cook and the toast was cold.  Then removing the pan from the heat I extracted the half empty cups.  Running a spoon gently round the edge I tried to plop the eggs out.  Guess what, the yolks came out, but the white remained stuck like a limpet to the red rubber.  And after a very unsatisfactory meal it took ages trying to wash and remove the recalcitrant bits of egg-white from the red rubber cups; pointless really because as soon as they were clean they went straight in the bin.

Saturday 28th January

Well, that seemed a marathon read, I can tell you.  Not that, on reflection, all that much has really happened.  As usual in Mirukami novels an awful lot of food prepared and eaten, description of clothes worn and of course the girls ears, well one of them anyway.  Also the obligatory cats, in the shape of a story read by Tengo, the male character, called Town of Cats, and an awful lot about the moon, or rather two moons which suddenly appear in the world 1Q84.  The novel is set in the year 1Q84, which is a slight deviation of the year 1984, and whereas most of the world is living in the year 1984, a few people have slipped gear and found themselves in the slightly different world of 1Q84.  I kept finding myself reading IQ84, as in intelligence quotient, rather than 1Q, maybe a Freudian slip too far. Well, as you might expect the book is weird, but not like most magical realism, this is a very grounded novel, grounded in the quite everyday, except that there is always the hint of evil just around the corner, and sometimes right in your face.  I found the book a bit too long to be honest.  There was so much repetition too, so many re-iterated and repetitive reflections by the two main characters.  This of course is how you build up characters in a novel, by re-enforcing the peculiarities and dilemmas they find themselves in.  Nobody wants to read a straight narrative…and then they did this, and then they did that, but perhaps a bit more editing of Mr. Marukami’s long-winded and slow unfolding of the story might have been in order.  Maybe when you get this famous nobody dares tell you how to write.

Like all clever novelists he has left us just at the exciting bit, a hair trigger literally away from some sort of resolution, and I will now just have to buy Book 3 I suppose. But I may not rush to read it too quickly.

Friday 27th January

Sitting here, pen in hand, and I am lost for words.  Words that usually swirl around and around in my brain have suddenly deserted me.  I am sitting in a Pret today, I am giving Stabucks a rest, and I must say their almond croissant is excellent – the coffee is okay, but not a Starbucks I am afraid.  What is that secret ingredient they use, that makes you just come back and back.  I am looking out over Baker Street, watching all the busy people rushing about dodging the few drops of rain as they scurry to work.  What a strange world we inhabit, so much activity that seems so important and yet we ignore the really important things far too easily.  All of this rush and bustle and striving to obtain the means of survival, or actually to do far more than feed and house ourselves.  If only we could somehow get back to those simple ideals.  This takes me back to those BBC2 late night documentaries about some undiscovered tribe deep in the Amazon, the Kreen-Akrore maybe, and how different their lives are from our over-developed and greedy ones.  They seem to have all the time in the world for each other, and for building family and tribal bonds, and the children run around in the sun without a care in the world, no schoolwork, no exams, no sats, no worrying about a career for them.  They know what they will do when they grow up, they will be just like their parents, a bit of hunting, a bit of gathering roots and berries, a lot of sitting around and talking to each other – what bliss.  But then the corollary looms into view, the threat posed by the external world, the animosity and inevitable warfare with any other tribe invading their territory, even the film crew and documentary makers bring with them the inevitable contagion of the outside world.  That is why Communism failed.  That is why Aldous Huxley wrote of his Noble Savage living on a large island cut off from the rest of humanity.  This disease called Man.  And yes, that s exactly what we are.  A Diss-Ease, upsetting the ease of life.  Maybe that is part of the human condition, to never be satisfied, the real key to our success.   The very fact that we are essentially a miserable bunch of unhappy apes means that we are always striving for something else – no matter how much we already have.  And that is how we have conquered the world.  Some conquest my dears.

Where it will all end; no-one yet knows.  In the meantime, my Pret coffee has gone cold and is a little bitter now, so time to pack up and go back home.  Bye for now.

Thursday 26th January

Not my words, I can assure you, but those of a friend.  I have both lived with a man and am now without one, and until the right one comes along I will remain without one – so imagining does not come into it. I have however never had a dog, so this particular attachment is not precious to me, though given the immediate choice, a dog does seem to hold more appeal.

My friend, who I will not embarrass by naming, has been married three times, and has had numerous liaisons in-between too.  So, she has probably rarely been without a man herself.  She has two dogs, and assures me that when one dies she replaces it with another with as little delay as possible.

One has to wonder though what value she really puts on the relationships she has with either.  Are the men as interchangeable as the dogs, even though the dogs may be easier to replace; maybe if one is not too discerning then the men may be easily replaceable too.

I find it far harder to strike up friendships which may lead to something else though.  Maybe just my natural reticence, maybe a fatal flaw in my personality, but I just do not strike up friendships with people.  I need to get to know them slowly, before committing myself.  And that may also explain why I have never had a dog, that instant affection which people experience when they see a little puppy face seems to be somewhat lacking in me, I am always that little bit too cautious, too much consideration and not enough impulse, and then the moment, or the possibility of a moment, is gone.

So I remain here without either a man or a dog, though little puddy-tat is probably thankful for the lack of both.